Saturday 4 June 2022

Great x3 (Half?) Aunt Ann Cobley (formerly Edworthy; nee Harris)

My Great x3 (Half ?) Aunt (also my Great x4 Aunt by marriage) Ann (1841 - 1882) was a housewife, mother of three; the eldest (possibly half) sister of my Great Great Grandfather William Edworthy (1852 - 1911), and the first wife of my Great x4 Uncle Samuel Cobley (1829 - 1916).


Ann was born in Apr/May/Jun in 1841 in Lapford, Devon, the illegitimate daughter of Mary Harris (about 17).

On 13th June 1841, Ann was baptised as Ann Harris, in Lapford. Her mother's name is listed, but not her father's.

Ann's father may have been Mary's future husband William Edworthy (about 20), a farm labourer. 

Around 1841, William's older brother George lived for some time with the Harris family in Lapford (as shown on the 1841 Census) and would soon marry Ann's older sister Mary, meaning it was likely younger siblings William and Mary knew each other in 1841, if not earlier.

Ann is recorded on the 1851 Census as being William's daughter and has his surname of Edworthy; however, when she later married in 1860, she was once more calling herself Ann Harris and her father's name not listed.

1841 Census:

On 26th September 1844, when Ann was three years old, her mother Mary (about 20) married William Edworthy (about 24), in Lapford. At the time, Ann's mother Mary was around seven months pregnant with her second child, a son called John.

Ann had ten younger (half?) siblings:

  • Ann  1841 - 1882  (about 41)
  • John  1845 -
  • Elizabeth  1849 -
  • William  1852 - 1911  (about 59)
  • George  1854 - 187? (about 21)
  • Samuel  1856 -
  • Ellen  1858 -
  • Louis/Lewis  1861 -
  • Frederick  1863 -
  • Frank  1866 -
  • Mary  1869 -

1851 Census:

Though Ann Edworthy on the 1851 Census, by 1860 Ann was once more going by Ann Harris.

On 31st March 1860, Ann (about 18) married Samuel Cobley (about 30), an agricultural labourer, in East Worlington. The name of Ann's father is not recorded. But a witness to the marriage was an Elizabeth Edworthy - probably an aunt or cousin, rather than Ann's younger (half?) sister Elizabeth, who would have only been eleven or so at the time.

Samuel (1829 - 1916) is also my Great x4 Uncle. He was the youngest brother of Great x3 Grandmother Grace Nott (nee Cobley) (1828 - 1890). Hopefully this tree explains the link...


Ann and Samuel had three daughters:

  • Mary Ann  1863 -
  • Emily  1870 -
  • Jessie  1876 -

They would bring up their young family in East Worlington.

1871 Census:

1881 Census:

In Oct/Nov/Dec 1882, Ann passed away, aged about forty-one, in the district of Crediton, Devon. She was buried on 27th December 1882 in East Worlington.

Ann shares a gravestone with her mother Mary and younger (half?) brother George, at St Mary's Churchyard, East Worlington. (https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/207067738/ann-cobley)

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Ann left behind a widower, Samuel (about 53), and three young daughters, Mary Ann (about 19), Emily (about 12) and Jessie (about 6).

Her daughters seem to have first found work as domestic servants. Ann's middle daughter Emily, a domestic servant, would live with her paternal Uncle William Cobley and his family, at the Black Dog Inn, in Washford Pyne, where Uncle William was the innkeeper/publican. Emily later married her first cousin Walter Cobley. 


Ann's daughter Emily passed away in 1939; at that point the Cobley family had reportedly run the Black Dog Inn for 150 years (so since approximately 1790) and were directly descended from Uncle Tom Cobley! 

Well at least according to the Exeter and Plymouth Gazette of 12th May 1939:




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Back to the 1880s, and the years directly following Ann's death...

Two years after his wife's death, Samuel remarried. In September 1884, Samuel (about 54), a widower and agricultural labourer, married Elizabeth Bennett (nee Crossman) (about 47), the widow of agricultural labourer George Bennett, and mother of four:

  • Henry Crossman  1857 - (an illegitimate son born before her first marriage)
  • John Bennett  1871 -
  • Mary Ann Bennett  1874 -
  • Clara Bennett  1876 -

Mary Ann and Clara, some fifty plus years later, attended the funeral of their step-sister Emily Cobley (they are listed under their married names of Mrs H Petherick and Mrs J Saunders).

1891 Census: 

1901 Census:

By 1901, Samuel, in his early seventies, was working as the caretaker of Affeton Castle, East Worlington. Though it has castle in its name, the building is in fact a restored late medieval gatehouse, and in the late Victorian period was used as a hunting lodge by the knighted Stucley family.

Affeton Castle, near East Worlington

In the 1900's, Samuel's second wife Elizabeth passed away.

By 1911, an elderly and twice-bereaved Samuel was living with his daughter, Emily and her family at the Black Dog Inn, Washford Pyne, Devon. By this time, Emily's husband (Samuel's son-in-law and nephew) Walter, following his own father's death, had taken over as innkeeper (and farmer).

1911 Census:

On 30th December 1916, Samuel passed away, aged about eighty-seven, at the Black Dog Inn, Washford Pyne, Devon. He outlived his first wife Ann by nearly twenty-five years.

Black Dog Inn, Washford Pyne, was run by the Cobley/Rattenbury family for several generations.

(...William Cobley, brother of Samuel and Grace, had married his employer's daughter, Sarah Rattenbury. Upon his father-in-law's death, William became innkeeper. Upon William's death, his and Sarah's son Walter took over. Walter married his Uncle Samuel's daughter, his first cousin Emily. Walter and Emily's son then took over...)


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